
A friend and fellow consultant will be speaking next week in Omaha, his topic is Zen Leadership. An appropriate topic choice since he’s an expert in Jujutsu and Aikido which is a polite way of saying don’t try to sneak up on him. As we talked about his upcoming speech, I noticed that one area he will cover has to do with “don’t care if you live or die”
When I questioned him about this he referred me to the movie First Knight with Richard Gere in which he played Lancelot. In a scene where he had just beaten someone in a joust, the person asked him to teach him to fight the way he did. His response was, first you have to not care if you live or die. When the person heard that he left. He wasn’t willing to go all the way.
As we continued our discussion, it came to me that people who desire to lead, need to understand this concept. No, I don’t mean that they have to behave in a constant reckless manner, but understand what it will take to really lead a team or an organization. Successful leadership encompasses a number of skills and traits. Yes, one can be taught to be a leader, and there are any number of books you can read about leadership skills and how to go about acquiring them. But the willingness to move forward and take the kind of risk that could end your career, is in a way not caring if you live or die, or another way of putting if you succeed or fail. I understand that this may sound a bit radical, but it’s not. Here’s why.
In our collective experience (me and my friend) we understand that those individuals who have the Lancelot philosophy can act that way because of their training and experience. This is no fool-hardy rush to take on risk just for the thrill. Truly successful leaders have learned how to push out the boundaries of their area of moderate risk. For the uninitiated what appears to be a high risk situation has become one of moderate risk for those who have the training and experience of dealing with risky situations over a period of time. They have also learned that having a clear image of what it is they are trying to accomplish helps them immensely to achieve their goals and objectives.
These types of leaders understand power, how to use it, how to administer it, and most importantly that sharing it will not lead to their demise or downfall. They understand that when they give up power, they really become more powerful for a simple reason their team is able to accomplish a great deal because they’ve become empowered and understand fully what they are capable of accomplishing. Through their actions they complete projects on time and within budget, their leader is viewed as someone who can get things done through other people. In essence she becomes the First Knight. She doesn’t’ care if she lives or dies.
My guess is my colleague will give a very good speech because he doesn’t care if he lives or dies.